Blog about Art, Poetry and Prose

Blog about Art, Poetry and Prose

Friday, October 23, 2020

WHY WE CRY


We were told youths are the leaders

Meant to build the nation tomorrow 

But outside of the streets

All I envision is sorrow


Abandoned health care, selfish governance

The masses preyed to political ambiguity 

Deemed okay for a child to be homeless 

But screams felony when an election is lost


The economy is starving

She is dying slowly in her sleep

Why can't we curb corruption in our system?

How billions of funds are being looted


Who made you gods over us

Did we not voted you into government to serve us?

You must explain why you are killing the youths

Ripping off the future of the unborn youngsters 


If we are going to put up with a thousand deaths

To air our grievances to the world

We are determined to lay our lives for a sacrifice

This constant injustice must come to a stop


Our mothers should not be afraid to speak

Of our brothers tired of been molested

An exemplary life for everyone is what we expect

Total reform in governance is what we consent


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Saturday, October 10, 2020

HOLD MY HAND

Dedicated to my mom, Late Mrs. Affiong Udofia


I am holding up a load

The burden is weighing in

How can I reach you?

How can I survive this through?


I smile outwardly from a wounded heart 

I missed you every day that passes by

But I do not wish to stop

A mother caring as you do stands priceless

They say memories fade away over time

But this is different

Thinking of you makes me smile always

I would not forget you for eternity


Wish you could hold my hands again 

Bring me to heaven with you, please

Without you, life is not the same

I do not believe love would ever walk away


I miss sitting at you back to the market

I miss the soft words you would say

To cheer me up when am feeling sad

I miss your warm hugs and kisses


The world may have forgotten 

I know you are watching over me from heaven

Tonight, no matter how long it takes

I will wait for you by the window


I hope you will come back home

And stay for a little while 

If God would permit it

I will rather prefer you stay forever


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Friday, October 2, 2020

UNDER THE SKY

Under the sky

The world is dying

As many dreams seem unreal

What you strive is conceivable


Do not let time rob you

From the things you desire in life

The chaos in the world is disturbing

But hope brings joy to a sedate mind


The sun may tell it is already daylight

That time may not be reverse

Yeah, every day is a battle

To succeed, there has to be a sacrifice


Love may be an alien

Despise not for vengeance 

Be truthful, tolerant, polite at heart

One honest act can save a million lives 


No one knows the difference

Of the mind spent in denial

It is okay to start afresh 

Despite not catching up with lost times


If you must attain greatness

The heart and mind has to be one

No contrition, no conservative thoughts

Regardless of the magnitude of setbacks


There are no lines between right and wrong

But a man with a predetermined mind

True happiness can't be based on achievement 

But from the threshold of a man with a positive attitude


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Tuesday, September 1, 2020

PLEASE DON'T LEAVE ME

All my life, I wander in obscurity

Every path whirled, I find not the light 

But the holy spirit whispers to my heart

To succeed, rely not on your will or might


As does a lost sheep prone to prey, I am weak

Do not turn at me your back, I plead

I am your child regardless be who I turn out

To always love me, Lord you promised


In the wilderness of life, I have lost my path

Of whom I am, but need to be back on my feet

The devil took advantage of my greed

In the act of unfaithfulness, guilty I plead


Can you forgive the trespasses of this sinful heart?

I am knocking, hope the door to be opened

To the afflicted, your presence is a stronghold

Oh faithful Lord, be merciful to thy servant


Your grace for mankind has no threshold 

The bloodshed on the cross abide by all who yield 

For every wrong committed, purge me to do right

Body and soul, cast me not to be tormented


Root me in the foundation of your words, rebuild my faith

May the blessings denuded in my life be restored

Hold my hands, lead me to the promised land

Eternal life in heaven, I shall attend


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Wednesday, August 26, 2020

DYING TO SAVE THE WORLD


It is no shock human values is abating

There is catastrophic of events all over the world 

Maybe it is time to reflect

Why life is not the same today


Terrorism is life-threatening 

So likewise is racism

There is no gratification in human trafficking 

Neither in lesbianism and homosexualism


I can tell you without doubt

Time does not care who is wrong or right

Can you tell me why the world dreams is been killed?

The reason orphans and widowers are on the increase


Remember the choices you made this day

Is what determines the outcome of our lives

It does not matter if the sky is gray

Man shall be accountable for his deeds


God is no fool as many may believe

Giving up free will to man to conserve

Because it is not yet the demise of our days

Does not guarantee man eternal life


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Friday, August 21, 2020

SAVING FOR LOVE


I was nervous 

When I learned the heart can be forsaken

My feeling got locked inside

Scared of having a heart attack


Then you walked into my life

Stole my feelings away

I almost ran out of breath

For you are out of my league


Wish I had met you a long time ago

The nightmare would not creep into my mind

To ensure we have the best of relationship

Please, consent no secret between us


If there is a smokescreen in my heart

Yet you choose to stick around

I will start saving for love

To buy all the happiness you desire


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THE FEELINGS IN MY HEART

I tried to discern my heart

But she broke away into the sky

Yet never came back

Then life became blank


I look through the silver screen

Maybe I can find a way to fix this

But my feelings begin to get hurt

I cannot tell the difference


It seems I am living a life from the past

Where the world detested me

But why should I carry such a burden 

The weight of an ill-fated world


There is a lot of things I never had

No father to hug and nurture me

Nor mother to kiss and care for me

Not a privilege to chase after my dream


Do not attempt to cram my head with your sermon

There is a lot of things about me you never knew

There is a void weighing down my heart

The older I fetch, the pain is severe


The memories in my head start to hurt

I cannot pull myself together

Wish I have someone to cradle my hands

Maybe the heart will smile again


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Thursday, August 20, 2020

I BELIEVE

We are all aware the world is changing

Life will never be the same again

The world is contagious

Humankind is futile


Everywhere I walk, hope is deserted

Like falling stars, dreams are dying

The virus is threatening human existence

Insecurity embraced into our homes


It is a huge difference between life and death

Wish I could press play for the world to reset

Diseases would not steal our hope away

Tears will not reside in our land


You may not notice it yet

However, God designed the world to be distinct

If but man is remorseful and repent his ways

The plague will be purged


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Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Nigerian golf pioneer Georgia Oboh: 'I want to be on the path to world No 1

The 19-year-old brushed off prejudice during her ascent through England’s golf scene. Now she plans to blaze a trail for others

Georgia Oboh doesn’t bother with mediocre ambitions. Should the 19-year-old hit even a fraction of her immediate targets, the world of golf will owe her a debt of gratitude. When the Nigerian is asked about her aspirations, the rescheduled Tokyo Olympics feature heavily. So, too, a rapid rise. “Gaining my LPGA Tour card, winning on the LPGA, winning a major,” Oboh explains. “I like to set my goals high but attainable. I want to be on the path to No 1 in the world.”

Even more intriguing than these bold claims is that Oboh embraces her role as a pioneer. If South Africa is well known for its golfing heritage, the remainder of the continent has had no noticeable status at all; especially among women. Oboh wants to lead from the front.

“I want to show that Africans can compete in sports usually dominated by other countries,” she explains. “These are all just building blocks for juniors to look up to. Being a role model for Nigerians and Africans is one of my goals as a professional golfer. It is not just about me being successful, it is also to help grow the next generation following me. Having a role model really helps with motivation.”

Oboh’s own was Lorena Ochoa, after an encounter at the 2009 Women’s Open. “She spotted me in the crowd and threw me a golf ball. That’s when I knew was going to be No 1 in the world.”

This week, the first Nigerian to earn a card on the Ladies European Tour will tee up in the Ladies Scottish Open. Oboh was “honoured” to receive a sponsor’s invite. Characteristically, she aims to compete at the summit of the leaderboard.

Having spent the majority of her childhood in London and Manchester, Oboh could have played under an England flag. She instead remained true to her heritage. Oboh’s parents, so integral to her sporting journey, had emigrated in their 20s. “At the time Nigeria was still under military rule,” she says. “They did their master’s in England after doing degrees in Nigeria. A lot of their friends and family also moved to England.

“Culturally we are strong Nigerians. As I got older I really started to connect back with the country. I see the differences I can make representing Nigeria. It would have been an easy choice to play for England or Great Britain but nothing comes easy. I feel Nigerian at heart, it is in my blood. That’s never going to change, it is part of who I am. I am a Nigerian first and foremost, we don’t shy away from our roots.”

Georgia’s father, Godfrey, was introduced to golf by his mother as a means to alleviate the stresses that came with owning a convenience store in central London. Soon the sport became a key part of his life. “He brought my mum in and they became very competitive,” Oboh recalls. “It was a family game for us. I ended up being in the buggy at three or four years old because they were playing about an hour from home in London and otherwise they would be rushing back to let the babysitter leave.”

If this all seems perfectly normal – endearing, even – it belies the fact that British golf is dominated by white males. Attitudes remain, in some cases, prehistoric. “If younger people were the majority of members at clubs, they wouldn’t be this way,” Oboh says.

It seems inevitable the Oboh family would have endured a few horrible moments. “I am sure my parents felt like the odd ones out back then,” Georgia adds. “They don’t mind the stares, they don’t mind looking ‘odd’ or people asking questions. They just wanted to play golf and to be as good as they could possibly be at it. They wanted me to be challenged. Golf is a game of great challenge. We have been through a few things together. Maybe because we moved clubs a lot, when one thing happened we brushed it off and moved along.

“I never felt that different from anybody else. I wasn’t recognizing any differences, whereas now I look back and think: ‘OK, that’s what was really happening.’ It differs by club and environment. Sometimes there was a bit of discouragement from the ladies’ section or I would feel alone playing with boys.

“I do feel like now there are more people of African descent playing. At my home club, Whitefield in Manchester, a few days ago I ended up playing with a guy from Zambia. He told me they now have their own association of African golfers in Manchester and Sheffield. So things are changing. It is going to take time and persistence. We have to keep on striving to do better. It takes time to change perception but the fight is still on and the spirit is high.”

There is no denying Oboh’s own. Her journey will make for compelling viewing.

https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2020/aug/09/golf-nigeria-georgia-oboh-interview

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

How to Align Your Career With Your Personal Definition of Success


As a former Goldman Sachs banker, I’ve been accustomed to thinking in dollars and cents. But as I’ve progressed in my career, I’ve realized that making more and more money wasn’t exactly what I considered success. The financial upside of a job, without a sense of pride and achievement in the work, can feel hollow, and my career in private equity the better part of a decade ago had left me feeling unfulfilled. So I left.

Folk wisdom has long held that money can’t buy happiness, but it’s more complicated than that. Recent research shows that while higher incomes are correlated with longer life expectancies and greater satisfaction, there’s a tipping point: Once our immediate material needs and desires are met financially, making more money doesn’t produce more joy. I’d reached the point when I wanted to create something tangible that combined my passions for wellness with my desire to improve people’s lives.

My first successful endeavor as an entrepreneur did that by offering nutritional supplements that would fulfill that purpose. Even after a few more business successes, I still have time to see my family, travel the world a couple of times a year, and generally do the things that contribute to my happiness. It started with a simple realization: I was lying to myself about what success is. I became less interested in how much money I could make and more interested in how much impact, time and happiness I could create with that money.

Don’t let happiness be the cost of ‘success.’
Once I realized that my personal metrics for success were happiness and fulfillment, it dawned on me how much time I had wasted chasing the wrong goals. Now, I help my employees and other entrepreneurs discover what defines their own success—aside from money—with these three strategies:

1. Align your current trajectory with your life purpose.
Ultimately, we all seek to find meaning in our lives, and it’s fundamentally different for all of us. For some, life means raising children or giving back to the community. For others, it means getting to introduce the coolest new piece of tech to the world. There’s no right or wrong answer for everyone—but there is a correct and incorrect one for you. That’s why your first step must be determining what gives your life meaning and assessing whether your current path will let you realize those outcomes.

If your life’s purpose isn’t to be at the top of your current field, then you’re at odds with whatever’s most important to you. When I really took stock of my life, I asked myself whether sitting in my boss’s boss’s chair 10 or 20 years from now would make me happy. The answer was a resounding no. That’s not to say I might never return to finance; it’s impossible to know whatpurpose will define my life for the next 30 years. Finance was misaligned with my individual purpose for this stage of my life, but it may well realign in the next. To that end, try to think in five-year increments. Your goals and aspirations can—and almost certainly will—change over time.

My real desire—the ways I would know I was successful—was knowing I was having a positive impact on people’s lives, the feeling of accomplishment from building a self-sustaining and profitable business, and the satisfaction of bringing together a team to have fun while doing something worthwhile. Clearly, I had the entrepreneurial bug. Not scratching that itch would have left me wondering “what if?” for the rest of my life.

2. Assign economic worth to your values.
Your values guide the series of decisions and trade-offs you make between life and your career. The best way to decide what’s worth trading is to assign an economic value to each decision. If comfort and time at home give your life meaning, you might value wearing jeans to work or working remotely. Ask yourself: Is it important enough that I’m willing to lose a few thousand dollars of annual comp to keep it? Give those benefits a value so you can determine whether casual dress is the ultimate comfort or is one you would sacrifice for a higher salary that could provide you with more home comforts. When you’re comparing cash to benefits, give the benefits a comparable value.

At the same time, determine which values are non-negotiable, meaning no amount of money is worth sacrificing them. For most major decisions, even several minor ones, I make comparative lists. When I first decided to work in finance, being in New York (where I felt I was meant to be) and walking to work were worth more to me than a higher salary in a different city. When I realized I could do that and still have a career I found meaningful, the choice was clear.

3. Make moderate changes first.
Once you’ve listed your values and assigned them a relative economic worth, force rank them and seek opportunities to maximize your time spent on the top few. Before you make any drastic changes, first figure out whether subtler shifts will do the trick. If you want to work remotely, ask your boss if it’s possible. If not, then consider whether finding a remote position would be worth taking a pay cut. You may be trading some values unnecessarily, in which case, happiness and success may be closer than you think. Ranking your values will clearly show you what changes you need to make in order to align with them.

You may be able to achieve the most important, highest-value goals on your list in your current career, something worth exploring before you hare off onto a new career path. These explorations will also lay the foundation for your next moves. For example, I took nutrition courses and advised a friend’s early-stage startup while still in my role at a private equity fund. Getting a preview of the entrepreneurial path while building expertise in a new field were the steppingstones to my passion projects.

Being successful (by most of society’s standards) and feeling successful (by your own metrics) don’t always overlap. But you can choose your own adventure and chart your own course. The one thing that I know doesn’t work is lying to yourself. If your metrics for success include the values that are important and meaningful to you, then true success will always feel just out of your grasp, no matter how much money you make. But it’s funny: When you do work you love that’s meaningful to you, financial success tends to follow—you may end up maximizing your bank account alongside your happiness.

By Colin Darretta
https://www.success.com/how-to-align-your-career-with-your-personal-definition-of-success/

I AM LOSING YOU



I am losing you
You are too far away
The heat of your love
Is what is driving me insane

But how can I put myself together?
If the day is not the same
Wish I can go to the market
Buy me a new kiss

You are a part of my dream
Yet I am losing sleep
My heart is in peril 
If you are far away

I am torn between my past feelings
Clinging every moment to be closer to you
Wish you are home with me tonight
I would not longer wear a scar

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Wednesday, April 22, 2020

CHAOS


In the act of chaos
The valiant uphold hope to salvage
But not like in a movie
Which has a predetermined end

He is like a pagan
Fighting to justify is efforts 
When there is war
Hope seems to be lost and forgotten

But not in the heart of a man with a will
He never conceded to defeat
But is constantly optimistic
Irrespective the outcome in difficult moments 

Every time the night is awake
He is sober when the world is asleep
Left with grave choices to contend with 
His intent is not influenced by wealth or comfort

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Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Breaking New!!!



Announcing the release of Strategies for Profitable Investment in Changing Market Dynamics and Recession

Over the past few weeks, there has been a complete global economic downturn.

As a result, I promised to make available training videos to guide in this period so that you will not make the same mistake as 2009.

As a result, I did my thorough and in-depth research and I came up a method if followed to its conclusion you will be secured and covered during this COVID-19 Pandemic effect.

This is titled Strategies for Profitable Investment in Changing Market Dynamics and Recession

It has 6 rich videos plus printable soft copy that will transform your portfolio into a solid one. In fact, the title of each video are as follows

Video 1: How to Trade and invest profitably in an uncertain economy: in this downturn and beyond this is a must much watch whenever you experience any instability in the market.

Video 2: Stocks to lead 2020 Recovery. That is, stock that will recover immediately this Pandemic ends.

Video 3: defensive stocks to play

Video 4: Dividend stocks to Hold

Video 5: Stocks to Benefit from Corona Virus Driven Downturn: here, you will discover the best stocks to benefits from.

Video 6: Low price stocks to Watch.

Usually, I would have sold this at N15000. however, I want to make it a relief for all serious traders and investors because I don't want you to gamble with your investment and this material is not only useful for COVID-19 but for any economy under recession.

As a result, you will get it at N5450 only. You can call 08032055467 08028164085 or indicate your interest by responding with INT. so that one of our team members will contact you immediately.

Dedicated to Your Investment and Safety,
Ambrose Omordion

Thursday, April 2, 2020

COVID-19, WHAT IS NIGERIA GOVERNMENT DOING ABOUT IT?

. Atiku Abubakar N50million
2). Abdulsamad Rabiu- N1Billion
3). Femi Otedola N1Billion
4). Tony 0 Elumelu N1Billion
5). Herbert 0. Wigwe N1Billion
6). Segun Agbaje N1Billion
7). Jim Ovia  N1Billion
8). Aliko Dangote.  N1Billion
9). TuFace Idibia.10 Million
10). Folasade Alakija - N35m (Worth of items).
11). Federal Government N23Billion

Corporate Donations
1). Access Bank 1Billion naira
2).GT Bank 1Billion naira
3).Zenith Banks 1Billion naira

NNPC 11 Billion naira

Yet
No adequate testing facility
No good hospital
No free hand sanitizer
No free face mask

Nothing is being given to the people staying at
home.

DAY 3
With instruction by the federal and state government for residence to stay at home for 14days due to the Covid19 epidemic, all the Lagos government could do on her own part to ease the burden on Lagosians was to distribute a loaf of bread and put a cup worth of rice into a polyethylene bag as relief material to feed an entire household for a whole day. Yet, these so-called relief materials have not gotten to 1% of the populace residing in lagos.

This is pathetic and heartless of our leaders, out of the current situation when the world is safeguarding and looking after the citizenry of their country, all Nigeria government could think of is looting the resources a few good Nigerians have donated to help curb the starvation already raging in our lands. May already help us!


WHAT KIND OF A COUNTRY IS THIS?

WHAT KIND
OF POLITICS DO NIGERIA HAVE?
.
WHAT KIND OF LOOTERS DO NIGERIA HAVE?

© Akan Udofia 2020

Note: The link below shows video the relief sent to a local government ward in Lagos state government.

httgovernmentnaija.com.ng/2020/04/02/covid-19-contents-of-emergency-food-response-leaves-lagosians-disappointed-videos/

Sunday, March 29, 2020

A TALES OF TWO COMMUNITY



Isu is a local government area in the Imo State of Nigeria. Its headquarters are in the town of Umundugba. The majority of the villages in Isu Local government are a traditionalist and uphold their belief in deities of the land.

This has resulted in the appointment of the chief priest who intercedes to the gods (Ezenmuo) of the land on behalf of the people. The chief Priest Anyehe Ngameduru is highly acknowledged and respected among the people. No one dares to oppose is instructions. The tradition of the origin of the people, however, says that Njaba is also the birth-place of Isu njaba people.

According to this version which gives the people autochthonous status, Chukwu Abiama (the Supreme God) created the River, and out of the river emerged a man named Njaba. God then gave Njaba a wife named Lolo. The union of Njaba and Lolo produced a male child whom the couple called Isu; hence, Isu Njaba (Isu, the son of Njaba). Eke Njaba is a welcome visitor in the home of every Isu man, and it is usually treated with the warmest hospitality. Sometimes sacrifices are made to herald its visit.

At other times eggs and chicks are offered to it because by so doing, it is believed that the supplicant is placing himself in a position to obtain favor from the deity. Tradition forbids anyone, indigene and visitor alike, to raise a hand against it or to kill it, anyone who violates the tradition, willingly or accidentally, must accord the snake a befitting burial surpassing that of a titled man to cleanse the land he has polluted. The alternative punishment is ostracism.

However, much of the above practices have been overtaken by Christianity. Some Christians, in their overzealousness to eradicate all forms of what they tagged heathenism, began to kill Eke Njaba with reckless abandon.
Esan (pronounced /aysan/) on the other hand is one of the major ethnic groups in Edo State, Nigeria. The name 'Esan' owes its origin to Bini and was once corrupted to 'Ishan' by colonial Britain. Esanland is bordered to the south by Benin, to the south-east by Agbor, to the north and east by Etsako, to the west by River Niger.

Esan has prominent traditional rulers who keep order in a society where beauty and manners are intertwined. Despite the long-term impact of Christianity, the Esan are largely traditional and a large number practice traditional beliefs in the form of worship of ancestral spirits and other gods. A large percentage of Esan are Christians, mostly Catholic and recently of other denominations.
The British colonialists found it difficult to pronounce the same so it was anglicized to ‘Ishan.’ It is believed that the modern Esan people have been organized during the 15th century when citizens left the neighboring Benin Empire for the northeast.

35 kingdoms made up Esan land, they are as follows: Amahor, Ebelle, Egoro, Ewohimi, Ekekhenlen, Ekpoma, Emu, Ewatto, Ewosa, Idoa, Ifeku, Iguebeu, Ilushi, and Inyelen. Others are Irua, Ogwa, Ohordua, Okalo, Okhuesan, Onogholo, Opoji, Oria, Orowo, Uromi, Udo, Ugbegwu, Ugboha, Ubiaja, Urhohi, Ugun, Ujioba, Ukhun, and Uzea.

All these kingdoms and communities are referred to as the ‘’Eguares.’’ In recent times, the clans/kingdom in Esan land is arranged under five local government areas in Edo state. They are Esan North-East, Esan Central, Esan West, Esan South-East, and Igueben local government areas. There are about 1.5 million people in Esan land.

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MARRIAGE AND THE NIGERIA CULTURE



Marriage within the various tribes in Nigeria has been conceived by our forefathers since the birth of history. The traditional culture has always stood the test of time irrespective of the introduction of modern days practices to Nigerians by the western world for over two decades ago. When it comes to marriage rights, the culture of the land takes the center stage with all the traditional rights and ceremonies conducted as stipulated by the bride's family. Aside from pride, it brings to both families, it also acts as a means or protecting our culture from extinction.

Irrespective of the joy these brings, inter-tribal marriage has not been completing approved by some lineages who see it as defiling the culture of the ancestors of the forefather, to the extend of disowning a child who goes against the will his or her parents. While some culture is allowed to betrothed their daughters into underage marriage without consent to the adverse implications it may have on the child's life. Unfortunately, this is still practiced up until today. And has led to many unhappy marriages and divorced homes in Nigeria.

I could recall sometime in the past, there was a controversy surrounding the marriage of an indigene of Umuduru to an Esan woman from Idua in Edo state. This is may have been a result of a feud between these two tribes or communities. as was narrated by someone from a reliable source but who pleaded anonymous due to security purposes, did emphasis on the cultural history of each town which does not encourage inter-tribal marriages. The family from each lineage insisted that the marriage was forbidden and the couple needs spiritual cleansing to apiece the gods of the land.

In Umuduru community, Isu local government in Imo state, the then chief priest (Anyehe Ngameduru) said it was an abomination for an Isu man to be married to a woman from Esan, such a man will become an outcast and may lose the inheritance of his fathers land, except the Idua woman prepares herself to be circumcised before she can be welcomed into the community as one of their own.

While on the other hand, the Idua community in Esan local government, in Edo state were also demanding the man to be given ritual marks on his body and perform some ceremonious rights before he can be accepted into their family. This became a constant warning from relatives and families, at this time the couple lived in the family house at Benin, but relocated to Auchi where they felt would be home to their children, nonetheless, the belief and difficulty surrounding their family background was becoming a nightmare each passing day.

As if that was not enough, there is also a constant threat from the son of the chief priest in Umundugba by name Anyehe Ngamuduru who is notorious and influential in Imo state. He terrorized the couple and sent thugs to the home as a reminder that being they will not be safe anywhere in Nigeria unless they adhere to the instruction of his father, the chief priest.

The said Anyehe Ngamuduru is named amongst the kidnappers who kidnapped and murdered the Late Edwin Ajaere,  the CEO of Good is Good motor in March 2009. Anyehe is at large after he was declared wanted by the anti-robbery unit of the Nigerian police force also tied to other criminal acts carried out by him and his gangs.

The couple could not leave their chance to fate as a result of his past background history but made an effort to retreat abroad for fear of the safety of their lives and that of their children. They have been living abroad ever since.

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Wednesday, March 25, 2020

THE IMPACT OF CULTURE AND TRADITION OF IMO STATE IN NIGERIA


The Eastern States in Nigeria has always been for their industrious exploit in various interests of business and human hospitality to strangers. Trading is like an ancestral belief in the Igbo land, an average Igbo family is not complete without at least one person indulging in certain skills or trade. No wonder they can be seen migrated all over the world to expand their business ventures.

Culture and tradition in Igbo land are strictly adhered to by the indigenes of the community, this is applicable to every community and states in the eastern part of the country Nigeria which comprises of Anambra state, Imo state, Ebony state, Enugu state, and Abia State respectively.

These have drawn tourist attractions across other tribes in Nigeria and countries beyond our boundaries. Without exception, we look at some of the activities of Umuduru, Isu Community in Imo State.

Imo state is located in Southeast Nigeria and has a population of 3.9 million, projected to rise to 4.7 million by 2015 (NBS, 2006). As with all states, Imo’s Government is comprised of executive, judicial and legislative branches, with ministries headed by Commissioners. The State has 27 Local Government Areas (LGAs) with variations between population characteristics and distribution and autonomous groups headed by Ezes – traditional rulers – operating at the community level.


Isu is a local government area in the Imo State of Nigeria. Its headquarters are in the town of Umundugba. Other communities are Amandugba, Ekwe, Uburu Ekwe, Isunjaba, Amurie Omanze, Ebenator Ekwe and, Oboro Amurie. The name comes from the Isu people, a subgroup of the Igbo people.

Amandugbe and neighboring Umundugba used to be one town. Both communities have suffered from reliable water supply from streams and brooks that often dry up, and that are breeding grounds for malaria-carrying mosquitoes and sources of diseases such as cholera, diarrhea, dysentery, guinea worm, tape tapeworm night blindness. A recent project by Africa We Care, a charity, has started to develop a supply based on a bore-hole.

Tourism and Hospitality
Ekwe tourist attractions include a number of natural springs located in Ekwe the community. Uburu Ekwe and Ebenator springs are some of the notable spring sites. These springs are noted for their natural flowing Spring (water). Abut 30 years ago, the people of Ekwe the community constructed a big slab at the Ishiyi with pipes to draw their drinking water. The evidence collected from here throws more lights on the past and ancient culture.

Religion
There is freedom of worship in the community and religion occupies a central place in the lives of the people. Before the advent of Christianity, the people practiced traditional religions. With the advent of Christianity, the people are now predominantly Christians of different denominations but mostly Catholics and Anglican. Catholics and Anglican churches are still being considered as the official church in most villages in the town. Recently other Christian denominations have been gaining ground in the town. Some people in the town still practice African Traditional religions.

Traditions
Traditions are long-established patterns of actions or behaviors, often handed down within a community over many generations. These customs are based on the beliefs and values held by members of the community. Traditions are often protected by taboos, which strong social prohibitions (or bans) are relating to human activity or social custom based on moral judgment and religious beliefs. This means that traditions are not easy to change, because people adhere to these patterns of behavior, believing that they are the right things to do.

What are the consequences of harmful traditional practices?

Some of the harmful effects include:

Conflicts between families may lead to quarrels lasting for generations
Psychological stress on the girl resulting in suicide etc.
• Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)/ Female Circumcision.
• Child Marriage.
• Female Spouse Sharing.
• Son Preference.
• Polygamy.
• Violence against Women.
• Scarification.
• Tribal Marks.

Reference:
https://www.odi.org/sites/odi.org.uk/files/odi-assets/publications-opinion-files/7377.pdf

http://www.eajournals.org/wp-content/uploads/The-Traditional-Mbaise-Society-Perspectives-on-Igbo-Scio-Cultural-History-1500-1900.pdf

https://www.open.edu/openlearncreate/mod/oucontent/view.php?id=66&printable=1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ekwe_Community

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/06/akatakpa-masquerades-banned-in-enugu-community

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isu, _Nigeria

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Sunday, March 22, 2020

A MOTHERS BOND

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace

As the world celebrates Mothers Day
Amidst the global threat of coronavirus
I could only reflect back in time
The inseparable bond between us

From nine months in your womb
And forty-plus years spent
Fostered under your wings
Protected with love and ceaseless care

Which persisted through a lifetime
As I pay my ultimate respect to you
Know that you mean the world to me
Watching over me through the stars above

How I wish you can hug me tonight
Kiss me and tell me it is going to be alright
I can find refuge in the time of storm
With you interceding on my behalf to God

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Thursday, March 12, 2020

I LOVE YOU, MOM


I wish you are here to hold my hand
Without you, life is not the same in my heart
I am sorry, I should not have let you go
There is so much I wanted to tell you

The secret to my success in life is you
You taught how to be humble, and to be grateful
You taught how to be faithful and be prayerful
I have learned to forgive and to anger be mindful

The burdens in my heart can not be wash away by the rain
Wish I can be with you to make me smile again
Please tell me where I can find you beyond heavens gate
I wish to live closer to you as much I can get

I do not want you crying over anything mom
God is right, He knew these were the best time
To take you home, to serve with Him on the throne
I am very lucky to have an angel for a mom

I miss your warm hugs and the tenderness of your smile
I miss your cooking, especially the pie
You loved every Equally, Lived a life of no regret
Too caring to be bothered of keeping a grudge

Like the stars that fill the sky
The impact of your love in our lives will never die
Though heaven and earth may pass away
The memories you left behind will forever stay

Akan E. Udofia

Friday, February 28, 2020

Coronavirus: How China is keeping busy during quarantine


With millions of people across China under lockdown, businesses across the country are trying to come up with ways to keep their customers occupied and connected.

In Hubei province, the epicentre of the coronavirus outbreak, at least 56 million people remain under strict instruction to remain inside their residential communities and villages. At one point, around 500 million people were said to be affected by movement restrictions to contain the virus.

Many people have turned to the internet as one way to cure their boredom.

According to The Paper, searches for the word "boring" on social media site Weibo grew by 626% on 26 January and topics such as "how to spend time at home when bored" also started to trend on the website.

Entrepreneurs began to realise there were ways of keeping in touch with their customers. Here are a few of the methods being used in China right now.

Workout videos at home

Gyms across China have been forced to close amid fears that they could help spread the virus. A number of gyms have started classes online so their customers can keep fit from home.

Lauren Hogan, General Manager for F45 in Shanghai, told the BBC that her gyms are offering workout sessions on WeChat, a popular messaging app in China.

"Every day my trainers have created a circuit-based workout depending on our programming. They've created a sheet of exercises and they are recording videos, but having fun with it too."

Ms Hogan said there are groups in WeChat for customers where they can write in and tell other people they have completed the day's exercise.

We also did a plank challenge and they had to tag someone in the group to take part," she added.

She said the videos have helped people talk and know that there is a resource for them, and customers have been appreciative.

"We've had personal thank you messages and also messages in the group chats. People are happy and grateful that we're taking the time to do it and show that we care. When you're stuck in your house, it turns into very long days and having someone else to talk to helps."

Other chains are following suit including Gravity Plus in Beijing. Aside from running online classes, it has also rented out gym equipment as an extra way of bringing in income, Reuters news agency reports.

Clubbing from your living room

With nightclubs closed and music events cancelled for the foreseeable future, a number of DJs and clubs in China are turning to "cloud clubbing".

Cloud clubbing is where people can watch live DJ sets and send in messages to give them the feeling that they're in a club. The cloud clubbing events usually take place on apps such as Douyin, China's TikTok.

TAXX Shanghai is one club that has taken advantage on the demand for "cloud clubbing sessions".

Ruan Liangliang, manager of TAXX Shanghai told Sixth Tone: "Recently many of our friends and customers have said they are bored with their indoor lives. So we planned a live broadcast to share pleasant music and ease their anxiety. "

He told the website he was surprised at the positive feedback from those who took part. However despite earning about $104,000 (£80,000) in tips, he says it is not enough to cover the rent.


Strawberry Music Festival, an indie music festival that has been hosted in several Chinese cities, put on its own indoor music festival named "Hi, I am also at home".

The festival was held for five days and featured shows from many musical acts. The shows were pre-recorded, however viewers were able to discuss the music together in the comments section as if they were watching a show together.

Bookshop groups and book lists

Bookshops have also had to think of new ways of reaching customers, a double blow to an industry that is already competing against online shops.

Chengdu Fang Suo Bookstore is located in the trendy Taikoo Li shopping centre in the city. One bookseller who gave their name as Jin Jin told local media that it usually brings in customers with its scenery and displays however it has turned to Wechat to help bring in any revenue.

Shop workers made their own lists in WeChat groups including "selected books of the year" and the "recommended reading list of Fang Suo house". Customers could then order the books via their online store.

Elsewhere in China, 1200 Bookstore in Guangzhou, a 24-hour shop, has been selling gift cards, tote bags and "blind gift packages" as a way to bring in income.

In a post written on social media, the store's owner warned its customers that it might not be long before 1200 Bookstore would have to shut permanently. He was inundated with supportive messages from followers

Copyright © 2020 BBC.



Thursday, February 20, 2020

7 Ways People Will Hold You Back--If You Let Them


Don't allow anyone to make you feel less than you are.

Think about the people you've encountered throughout your professional life. There's probably a range, with some who have gone out of their way to help you learn and grow, others who may have helped a bit when it wasn't too much trouble, and perhaps a few who seemed to actively be working to hold you back.

If you're working with someone in that last group, it's important to respond to their actions in a way that helps you get the best out of yourself and others instead of reacting to their negativity.

Here are seven of the most toxic weapons ways these people wield, with strategies to overcome them. With a little help, you can overcome anyone who's trying to stand in the way of your success.

1. They make you doubt yourself.
Don't allow someone else's doubts about you to turn into your own. If you find yourself doubting yourself because of something someone said or did, remember how far you have come and how strong you have grown. Whatever you believe about yourself is what you will manifest in your actions. Believe unwaveringly in yourself and others will have no choice but to believe in you too.

2. They keep reminding you of your faults.
If others find fault in you, you can consider their criticism objectively and then move on. If it's valid, you can let it help motivate you to learn more, know more and be more. And if not, you can ignore it. But never allow it to become a reason to get stuck or play small.

3. They are constantly criticizing your ideas.
Some people almost can't help responding to any new idea with negativity. But even unworkable ideas often have elements that are worth preserving or that lead to something that does work. Find others who can help you explore new ideas in a spirit of discovery and invention.

4. They discount your strengths.
The best way to combat someone who tries to undermine your strengths is simply to know yourself. When you have a clear sense of your own strengths and weaknesses, you're well situated to ignore the uninformed opinions of others.

5. They minimize your contributions.
Often when people minimize the contributions of others, it's because they're trying to take more than their share of the credit. Lead by example--give credit to others ahead of yourself, knowing that shining a light on another's efforts does nothing to take away from your own. Meanwhile, continue to do great work.

6. They try to make you feel unimportant.
The first thing you have to get past when someone puts you down is this: it hurts. So feel what you're feeling. Allow the pain to make you stronger, the fear to make you braver, and the heartbreak to make you wiser. Then go invest in the opinions of others who know better.

7. They want you to think you have no options.
Negative people sometimes enjoy backing others into an imaginary corner, maybe to make up for their own feelings of being trapped. But of course, the truth is that life is full of alternatives and choices. Simply choose to live your best life, every day, no matter what the options before you may be. Even if you don't have a choice about doing something, you always have a choice about how you do it and what you learn from it.

The bottom line is this: Don't take to heart the negativity of others. Remember that it has more to do with their own situation than with you. Stay tough and know what you're worth.

By Lolly Daska
https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/7-ways-people-will-hold-you-back-if-you-let-them.html

Tuesday, February 11, 2020

THE THINGS OF LIFE

When there are good tidings
Favor comes your way
But be kind and delightful
Life is not always reassuring

Dew makes the morning repose
Sunshine wears the day a smile
This may all seems beautiful
When the rain is upon your life

Too many times we think life is made of roses
And look down on the other man
The moment hard-luck falls
The tender leaves withered

Swivel from green to grey
And life becomes an isolated
Too late to make an amendment
For the promising days thrown away

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WHY?


Why is the world so confusing? 
Why is life so much demanding?
Why are dreams so far away?
Why can not a man be delighted today

Why can not tomorrow be predetermined?
Why fall in love if the heart can be broken
Why go to war when the universe is evolving
By the day, why is hatred heightening?

Why can not man live by the truth instead of lie?
Why work hard if someday I am going to die?
This and several thoughts I cannot figure out
The complexity of the human mind is like driving blind

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Wednesday, February 5, 2020

EVERYBODY IS GUILTY OF SOMETHING


What we are guilty of can be viewed positively or can also be negatively induced. We might have the guilt of not been fully committed to the words of God, our Studies, Careers, Jobs, relationships. The guilt of not taken important Advice from Friends, Colleagues, and Parents which as a result have a negative impact on our future. 

Our guilt can be positive like adapting to changes, be creative, optimistic, business-oriented and having the zeal to learn and always accept failures and moving on. You may be despised nevertheless.

Either way, the end results all depend on our subconscious thoughts and our perspective of life as a whole.

Thursday, January 30, 2020

RAGING STORM



Tell me, is it worth it
Living in a world crashing down
All your dreams static
Losing every battle without a crown

We all got love ones to protect
But the urge got to be strong enough
To withstand fall from a thousand feet
Not been resentful but living an authentic life

Out on the street, it is a different world
It is a total blackout, where is the sun?
I hope and dream of youths are not trashed?
What then is the future of a child unborn?

Why are there no jobs?
Why is insecurity on the rise?
Why is human right jeopardized?
Why do we keep electing corrupt leaders?

Why does life get to be painted so wrong?
There are so many questions to ask
It tastes awful, the recipe is misplaced
The world is asleep, she needs to be awake

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Tuesday, January 21, 2020

STRANGE FATE



I have been trying to feel my heart
But she broke away into the sky
And never came back
Then life became blank

I look through the silver screen
Maybe I can find a way to fix this
But my feelings begin to get hurt
I can tell the difference

It is like I am living a life from the past
Where the world despised me
Why should I carry such a burden on my shoulder
The weight of an ill-fated society

There is a lot of things I never had
A loving father, a caring mother
The memories of a happy home
The privilege to chase after my dream

So, do not try to fill my head with your problem
There is a lot of things about me you never knew
The hole I am carrying inside my head
As I grew older 

The memories in my head begin to hurt
I can not pull myself together
I am lost, wish I have someone to count on
To hold my hands and tell me it is alright


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